3 P’s For Personal Growth
I have been passing through some posts on social media. I have been reading blog posts from various people. I have been watching motivational speakers. I have been listening to successful people.
My intention and aim is to learn how to develop as a person.Most of them keep on saying the same thing, that for someone to develop he has to be ready to pay the price. Most of us want to develop, but are we ready to pay for what it takes?
Development for one person doesn't have to make sense to someone else. Every single person has his/her definition about Self-development.There are many things to do as a person to grow, but here I want to talk about three major things that are very important to be considered, the 3 p's for personal growth.
PLACE
Here I am talking about the environment, are you in a good environment that supports your growth?. Think about the flower, what does it take for it to grow? It needs light, water, good soil and air to grow and shine. The same applies to you. You may have good plans and dreams, but the environment you are in doesn't support your prosperity. You are something good; you have to be planted in good soil so you can grow.So, whatever stops you growing, move out of it and find a better place. Even if you're about to leave your hometown, a certain office, a certain course, for the fact that they are not favorable to you, just move out and find the best environment to grow. Get out of your comfort zone.
PEOPLE
Associations bring assimilation. You are what you are surrounded with. Most successful people associated themselves with people who were on the highest stage, far from them. What type of people are you surrounding yourself with? Are they adding something to you? Are they a liability or an asset? Are they lifting you up or are they dragging you down?.2 negatives equal 1 positive. I don't agree with this statement; how can 2 blinds help each other to cross the road? You need a friend who is not blind like you to help you cross the road. Find friends who are richer than you, find people who are educated than you, find people who are older than you, find people who know many things than you and watch the way your life will change at a certain time. You don't need many people; you just need a few significant people who will fill your cup until it overflows. THE 3RD P IS HERE